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Woman finds 'creepy' hidden tab on boyfriend's phone that people say is 'major red flag'

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Published 18:26 20 Aug 2024 GMT+1

Woman finds 'creepy' hidden tab on boyfriend's phone that people say is 'major red flag'

What he had on his phone is probably weirder than you were even imagining

Gerrard Kaonga

Gerrard Kaonga

A woman has been told to question her relationship with her boyfriend after she discovered something bizarre on his phone.

Making relationships work can be difficult. Bringing two people together and just getting things to mesh is a tall task but we are all up for giving it a good go, most of the time.

However, while it’s important to try and make things work, there are certainly some red flags to look out for.

According to a MailOnline report, one anonymous woman made a shocking discovery and took to social media to see if she was overreacting or if her boyfriend had some explaining to do.

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The woman had to confront her boyfriend about the discovery on his phone. (Getty Stock Image)
The woman had to confront her boyfriend about the discovery on his phone. (Getty Stock Image)

So, what did she find? Well, her boyfriend for the past year kept notes of how often they have sex on his phone...

The woman described their sex life as ‘healthy’ so you can understand her concern at finding out he keeps tabs on their intimate moments.

After plucking up quite a large amount of courage, she confronted her partner and his reasoning was rather questionable.

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She explained: “His explanation was that he keeps count to make sure we don't have problems in our relationship... and that he's doing enough to satisfy me.

“He... keeps mental tabs on everything like if he's done the dishes enough and if he's bought me flowers lately... but sex is the only thing he keeps a written count on.

“Then he said he's done this with all his exes and none of them had an issue with it and I'm the only one that has. It just feels off to me.”

Some social media users told the woman her boyfriend's behavior was creepy. (Getty Stock Image)
Some social media users told the woman her boyfriend's behavior was creepy. (Getty Stock Image)

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According to the outlet, many women seemed to agreed that the list and her boyfriend's response was ‘major reg flag’ territory and went as far to suggest that his behavior was ‘creepy’ and possibly controlling.

One person said: "This is super weird and he's 100 percent lying that all his exes were okay with it, no they weren't."

Another wrote: “Yeah, nah, I'd be walking away.”

A third commented: "Using his exes as a reason why you should be okay with it is not... logical, it only takes one person in a relationship to have an issue with something for it to be an issue."

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Now while many suggested the woman break off the relationship there and then, others recommended her to listen to her gut and, if she felt uneasy, to speak more openly with her partner.

What would you do in this situation?

Featured Image Credit: Getty stock photos

Topics: Community, Sex and Relationships, Weird

Gerrard Kaonga
Gerrard Kaonga

Gerrard is a Journalist at UNILAD and has dived headfirst into covering everything from breaking global stories to trending entertainment news. He has a bachelors in English Literature from Brunel University and has written across a number of different national and international publications. Most notably the Financial Times, Daily Express, Evening Standard and Newsweek.

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