Heartbroken parents issue urgent warning after 13-year-old daughter dies from chroming
Two Australian parents have called for significant changes after their daughter hopped lost her life hopping on a popular trend.
13-year-old Esra Haynes died after participating in ‘chroming’ while at a friend's sleepover back in 2023.
Her parents have since called for a change on social media, where they believe her daughter heard of the trend.
The trend involves inhaling potentially harmful chemicals from a deodorant can for a quick high.
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The 13-year-old student from Lilydale High School in Melbourne went into cardiac arrest while over at her friend’s sleepover. When she was rushed to hospital, her parents were told she suffered irreparable brain damage.
The incident happened back in March 2023, and her parents Paul and Andrea Haynes spoke to A Current Affair about what they want to see the deodorant industry and social media platforms do to remedy the issue.
“For me it’s a pistol sitting on the shelf,” Paul said.
“We need the manufacturers to step up and really change the formulation or the propellants.”
He also argued that social media must be more closely monitored, as be believes that is where Esra found out about the trend.
More importantly than that, they want to share the consequences of chroming with families and kids.
Paul said: “Kids don’t look beyond the next day, they really don’t. And especially not knowing how it can affect them.
“Esra would never have done this if she would have known the consequences.”
His wife added: “But the ripple effect is that this is absolutely devastating.
“We’ve got no child to bring home or anything.”
Paul concluded: “We need to talk about it.
“Her name meant helper so that’s what we’re here to do.”
Speaking on the moment they were made aware that her daughter's health was in danger, Andrea said: “It was just the regular routine of going to hang out with her mates.”
Paul added: “We always knew where she was and we knew who she was with.
“It wasn’t anything out of the ordinary.
“To get this phone call at that time of night, [it] was one of the calls no parent ever wants to have to receive and we unfortunately got that call: ‘Come and get your daughter’.
“We’ve got the pictures in our mind which will never be erased, you know, of what we were confronted with.”
When they arrived, paramedics were trying to save Esra’s life, telling Andrea that she’d been taking part in the dangerous trend, in which people look for a quick high by inhaling chemicals from aerosol deodorant cans.
It’s particularly popular among teenagers, who are likely unaware of the real and immediate danger it presents.
In Esra’s case, she was rushed off to hospital unresponsive, where she was placed on life support.
Eight days later, with her brain ‘damaged beyond repair’, her parents took the heartbreaking decision to turn off the machines.
Paul continued: “They’re asking us to bring family, friends to say goodbye to our 13-year-old daughter.
“It was a very, very difficult thing to do to such a young soul.”
It was devastating for the family, including Esra’s older siblings Imogen, Seth, and Charlie, who ‘cuddled her until the end’.
This latest incident is sadly not the first to occur from something like this.
In 2019, a 16-year-old boy died in New South Wales from aerosol inhalation.
Then, in 2021, a Queensland girl suffered brain damage from chroming.
Some supermarkets have even been forced to lock up deodorant cans because of increased theft and concerns about what they are being used for.
Schools and regional education departments are also trying to teach kids about the dangers of chroming, as well as medical experts.
Topics: Australia, Health, Social Media, Drugs
Gerrard Kaonga