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Topics: Psychology, Sex and Relationships, Life
Callum Jones
Topics: Psychology, Sex and Relationships, Life
A relationship expert has revealed one obvious sign of a 'relationship killer' that means a couple won't stay together for long.
There is a lot of different relationship advice dotted around the web, some more useful than others.
Certainly taking the bizarre crown of relationship advice is the 'Doritos theory' - which has somehow led to individuals breaking up a relationship.
Now, dating Coach Debbie Rivers has revealed a 'relationship killer' that is said to be a 'predictor of divorce'.
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According to the expert, contempt is often the biggest 'relationship killer', as she detailed in an interview with FEMAIL for the Mail Online.
Contempt typically refers to attitude or feeling towards someone that they are worthless and inferior.
It can also involve feelings of anger and resentment.
"Contempt shows disgust about the other person and it's different to criticism. You can see how that will kill any relationship and make it hard to resolve your problems in the relationship," Rivers told the Mail Online.
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Alongside contempt, Rivers said there are three other types of communication that kill relationships - criticism, stonewalling and defensiveness.
"If there is contempt in your relationship it is the biggest predictor that you are headed for a breakup or a divorce," the expert continued.
So, what are some of the signs you need to be looking out for from your partner.
Well, according to the relationship expert, some of the common indicators of contempt include insults, sarcasm and eye rolling, mockery, hostile humour and name calling.
And if your other half often acts like they are better than you, then you're often best getting rid.
"It is feeling like they are beneath you - an air of superiority. It's hard to solve a problem if your partner gets the idea/message that you are disgusted with them," Rivers said.
"It tends to happen when there are long-term resentments and unresolved issues in a relationship. It is those continual negative thoughts about your partner."
Rivers is not alone in thinking contempt is a 'relationship killer', with fellow expert Dr Lurve having a similar point of view.
She also told the Mail Online: "It's that toxic cocktail of disrespect, condescension, and a general sense of superiority towards a partner.
"It's crucial for couples to recognise the warning signs early on and address them head-on. Open, honest communication and a commitment to mutual respect can serve as powerful antidotes to contempt, fostering healthier and more enduring connections."